To all of you.
As evidenced below, my GF respects my wishes as has officially quit as i demanded.
Men, its such a sweet sweet thing to have such an understanding woman. She respects my feelings and in everything i come first.
My dear am meeting you at home as requested....
Thanks for telling every one who cares that you love me.
Jaaack
--- On Mon, 7/26/10, Lilly Pett <lillypett@gmail.com> wrote:
From: Lilly Pett <lillypett@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: Fw: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Cc: jacknyaiga@yahoo.com
Date: Monday, July 26, 2010, 8:45 AM
Yes..... Because i love my Man, I will do as per his wish. I didn't know these fora Have some Lunatics.
Jaaack... That's how i call him, is a sweet man whose love flows in my vains and skin. he is warm and cares for all those around me and i give back the same way, not a tit for tat but that we naturally are together. His love is deeper than the the deepest seashore, his love is warmer than the warmest ocean, his love flows like a river between the rocks. Jaaack.... am glad i met you.
I will do as you wish my love...I hereby quit.
Meet me at home for your favorite meal. I LOVE YOU FOREVER......
Lilly.
From: pamela butalanyi <butalanyipk@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, July 23, 2010, 2:44 PM
Elijah, thanks; but thank God I am not in Kenya otherwise I would have increased %ge of the NO vote. The reason I would have voted NO, is not because I am antireform and a land grabber, but because I am for closer to perfection; Note!...not perfectionist but close to perfection. Those in the NO camp want a good document that will not embarrassingly haunt us in the very near future. Dream RED ndugu yangu, we reject and amend and pass a goooooood document unanimously as ONE people of KENYA. Believe me, you will smile in future with such a good document the NO camp desire!. Don't look at Moi, Ruto, Jirongo et al...but focus on Kenya, her future, her people, you, your chidren, grandchildren, greatgrandchildren. greatgreatgrandchildren ( in Kiluhya we call afitsukhulu (grandchildren), efisoni (greatgrandchildren) efinamunda (greatgreatgrandchildren). Blessings!
From: elijah agevi <agevi2007@yahoo.co.uk>
Subject: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, July 23, 2010, 9:31 AM
Well argued and put Pamela and you too have a green and reflective weekend and if you can unpack some section of the constitution to any of the 17% undecided Kenyans, that will be a great service to the Nation. And yes the struggle continues Regards Elijah Agevi
From: pamela butalanyi <butalanyipk@yahoo.com>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Sent: Fri, 23 July, 2010 18:46:33
Subject: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
| You know, when you tell a normal intelligent woman face to face, that 'take it or leave' after some confrontation about some sins, then you go away with a swagger, chest pushed out. When you come later, the time them chicken have come to roost and find her within going about the duty to nurture the babies and she is as quiet as water inside a pot, be fooled not that she is scared and she will not go, because her man has put his foot on the ground. I normally hear some men advise others, put your foot down and show that woman that you are a man!. Wrong advise indeed....wrong advise because, that woman, before marrying her, she was a full adult with her full fuculties and independent...only after settling as a wife, is she reminded that, er...traditionally, a woman is under a man...but to be precise, that is not the reality ya mambo...it only appears kidogoo to be so. We realise that it only appears to be so, when she can walk out of the relationship after it is ireconcilable, meaning she is quite as a separate entity as is her man, but respect and mutual understanding keeps them together. Back to the topic of take or leave: Actually what has taken shape, inside such a woman, is that the anger generated by your take it or leave remarks at the time of need, makes her quiet. Quiet because she has actually left and no need to waste her precious energy on the gone case - thus one foot is outside another inside - the inside one strategising on when is the BEST time to call it quits. When that time reaches (it could even be 5 years or more..by then she has a clear map of her future life), she will use any flimsy reason, even like, 'why are you quarelling the house maid - or kwanini unachokoza mtoto?'' in order to make a fool of you; when you answer again arrogangly, then follows - ''I have to live'' . Then she walks out of that front door and through the gate with a swagger. Mambo finished. Then divorce follow. She moved on there and then, when you arrogantly said take it or leave!. Conversely,for those women who have no map about their future life, e.g those who rely fully on the husband to provide, they will hung on but, they also moved on ages ago, these ones wait at your old age; when they move to a separate bed and really keep you at arms length. That is the best punishment they have waited to do for long. By then the children are grown up, when you threaten that you will marry, it is not the woman to answer that, but the children, when they are protecting their inheritance. When you say, 'take it or leave' and then walk away, is the worst thing to say and do to a woman who is furious and is seeking answers to what is taking shape. I believe it is the same even to men, if the wife gets that arrogant. Wise men and women, who really care about each other and really care about the relatioship, really care about their future together and really want to age together, don't retort that, 'take it or leave'' when their partners are aggrieved. Instead, they sit them down, show remorse and appologise and if it is extremely bad behaviour, promise that, it will not happen again!...then forgiveness follow on condition that, truly there will be no repeat of the same. That is what we call wisdom... remember youthfulness is just but a stage...when we get old and the knees and knuckles are craking, when leaving bed with a swagger to go hunt becomes a nightmare, when we turn and find our sweeties still beside us, that is when we appreciate that very wisdom we displayed, that cemented us together as in till death do us part.... Have an educative weekend folks... Blessings.
From: Kuria-Mwangi <kjmwangi@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, July 23, 2010, 6:14 AM
Rose, Arasa na wengine, The young man needs counseling not condemnation. He is scared to hell of the possibility of the lady seeing him brag about his jolobo and enticing akina dada to his joloboland. He should have done what I do, joke about these things in private with her and tell her you joke in public so that when you get caught, you can remind her of that.
Migosi Ndunya is either looking for cheap publicity or ana upuzi so dont ruin his day. He would not be payukering about the woman if she was already on the forum.
And yes he is right to some extent. Some women dont know how to handle nonsense. He writes tones of them and like yours truly, a woman with a thin skin can give you hell. One I dated sometimes back when KOL was busy like hell got to read my satanic verses and then became confrontational. She had known that is how I write my stuff but she started talking of "I thought you were just writing fictional stuff" and then she didnt want to see women publicly get emotionally attached due to the writings especially the braggadocio stuff. I told her told her the same thing I told Mama Mwangi when she managed to get on these fora many years ago...Take it or leave. None of them wanted to leave but they eventually left for other reasons. Mama Mwangi didnt like me write satanic verses on Mwangi. I had series on his stupidity which he actually loved hearing me talk about such the time when I left him in the living room and I went to pee. I found him peeing on my tea and then he was telling me, "Dad, I am making tea for you". Even that is not stupidity, I dont know what it is. Another time I was talking to a woman in Gikuyu and we were both of us in the house. It was a landline and he went to one of the lines. I then heard a kid on the other side saying, "Please stop talking to my dad. I dont have anybody to play with in the house because my mom is at work. Keep off". As if that was not enough, another day he took my cell phone and hid under the trash can, at the very bottom. I looked for it for almost an hour and then I realized he was not looking straight at me on the eyes. He was barely three then. I suspected him and went to look at the trash can. I got it. Then gave him a good beating. He cried for a while then came to me and told me, "Dad, I threw it away because you only to speak to other people and dont have time for me". I hugged him and cried real tears. From then on, I would seek his permission to talk on phone if we were alone in the house. Kids can teach us lessons.
Now why am I talking about this stuff? To give support to the young man. Let him to tell her that she can take his nonsense or leave.
Kuria
On Fri, Jul 23, 2010 at 8:48 AM, arasa elisha <arasaelisha@yahoo.com> wrote: Ndunya,
Ushindwe kabisa! Kwani you thot that you will keep her out there and do all the shenzi type stuff in here and keep her out of it? Wacha kujilet down hivi. However the gal is, please get intouch with me I give you 411 about your man! Usiseme haukuambiwa!
Elisha ![]() ALWAYS YOUR FRIEND!!! HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY. DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT DONE UNTO YOU!!!!!!!
Subject: Re: SINCE MY CHICK HAS JOINED THESE FORUMS AM QUITTING....
Jex
i was thinking you are more mature than this. If you restrict her so much before marriage, what will happen after marriage. May be you will not allow her to greet even your neighbors or even apply powder on her face.
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