Thanks. I think the lady chose the wrong person. For some strange reasons the nice people end up with crooks but I also think such crooks need to be reprimanded where possible. I dont encourage divorce and I know many women live in miserable marriages because the money is the main provider. The lady you mention could afford to move out and I like her manners. If he cant change, I guess she will be better off on her own and living far from his drama queens.
So the nonsense is part two of the drama? I would not let him ruin my peace third time. It is for economic and not for children that most women live in miserable marriages. This one has no excuse to let the man abuse her using those other women. It is not even a case of a man who fell once and so she needs to pack her bags and leave or give him an ultimatum. She needs to talk to Kenyan women living abroad. They leave even for reasons such as the man refusing to take his butt to work. For strange reasons it is the women who work two jobs in most cases and support families and many men find themselves outwaged by women. That works until the man start to behave like the man above or does not want to work as hard as the lady. Good thing is that any woman, with or without children can be able to support herself and so it is the men who are normally shown the door and this happens very very often.
Kuria,
I truly like your advice and thoughts on this issue...Let me inform you that the wife once left with all her stuff plus her two kids,rented a great house as she is financially stable and started a new chapter-and left this man with This other woman(neighbor),it is after realizing what he had lost that he came looking for the 'wife 'and using all manner of sweet words to lure her back to the cage!!!Note-this other woman also brought very many fights within the household(from Broken TV Sets/Dishes/doors)-name it....The wife is truly a natural good natured,mature intelligent woman..and to top it all VERY FAITHFUL,lady,who would get home early,prepare a warm bath for the guy cook great meals and the list is endless-This truly got me thinking What do men want?really?thats why i chose to be single....!!!life is much more stress free.
The other woman i should say has village manners-and she is like 5 years older than the husband-so clearly thats her style goes for younger men,
Msoni-thanx for echoing my thoughts too,and as we speak i think i hope the wife will one day get to trust the husband because i think what matters most in a relationship is Trust not Love...
Regards
Ann Mar
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