Monday, August 30, 2010

Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

For Kamaba chics all the best.hahaha

--- On Thu, 8/19/10, modhiambos@yahoo.com <modhiambos@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: modhiambos@yahoo.com <modhiambos@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010, 7:56 AM

Understood and apprecieted

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From: maurice oduor <mauricejoduor@yahoo.ca>
Sender: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Wed, 18 Aug 2010 04:36:18 -0700 (PDT)
To: <mlalahoi@googlegroups.com>
ReplyTo: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Subject: Fw: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

Let me correct this.

I associate myself with your learned sentiments, Millie and Edla.
 
Courage,
Maurice


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From: maurice oduor <mauricejoduor@yahoo.ca>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Sent: Tue, August 17, 2010 10:22:45 PM
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

I associate myself with your sentimenys, Millie and Edla.
 
Courage,
Maurice



From: Millicent Odhiambo <modhiambos@yahoo.com>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Sent: Tue, August 17, 2010 12:28:48 PM
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !


 Edla i agree with you on this my dear.



From: Kuria-Mwangi <kjmwangi@gmail.com>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Sent: Mon, August 16, 2010 5:24:32 PM
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

No, he showing the level of tolerance by a person. The behavior should not be condoned.

On Mon, Aug 16, 2010 at 7:39 AM, edla muga <lawyeredla@yahoo.com> wrote:
Are you  all saying that a woman should allow a man to do whatever he wants including engaging in risky behaviour, likehaving multiple sexual partners with no protection *hence the 7 children* and hang around living on water and ugali because of the expenses of the mans selfish need to have many women in his bed, and THEN and ONLY THEN can she be a good woman, then you go ahead and put a tribal cloak over her and pick the Kamba tribe.....
 
If I was a kamba man or woman on this forum, I would be sick to my gut of this tribalistic labelling, and since I am a woman, I find the core of this thread offensive.  I hope any young unmarried ladies out there have enough self confidence to know that you do not become a good wife by accepting alot of bad behaviour and doing nothing about it.
 
I have a nagging feeling that the women who stayed behind, be she a kamba or not had no alternative, perhaps she was an orphan with no family or was unable to maintain herself financially.


From: Jagem K'Onyiego <jairuschurch@yahoo.com>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Sent: Sun, August 15, 2010 10:24:43 PM

Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

Kuria, Crispine and Nyongesa,
Waambiye "Wakuye ni wabalukie." 'Gentlemens' you could be having some point here. My cousin married some decades ago in Athi River. The Lady was from 'Masakusi'. The year was 1974. Since my cousin was born and brought up in a polygamous marriage he himself ended up being polygamous. 
 
He married three women, the first though, was this Kamba woman. Later the man ended up moving to Mombasa town, but subsequently had a two year stint when times were lean, when he could not hold a permanent job. During this period the other two wives took off leaving four children behind.
 
These children were taken in by the Kamba woman and cared for as her own children. The man later on got his footing and became successful. The children, seven of them have all gone through school and are now working.
At no time did I ever see this Kamba woman go away. She has turned to be one of the best role models of a 'Wife" in the Village.
All the same, this could be a One off, situation, but Nyar Machakos has done a lot of Good in the Village.
 
Jagem


From: "modhiambos@yahoo.com" <modhiambos@yahoo.com>
To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Cc: youngprofessionals.ke@gmail.com
Sent: Sun, August 15, 2010 12:43:00 AM
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more thancounterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

Nyongesa,

What do you mean wait for her husband to model her?
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-----Original Message-----
From: JOSEPH NYONGESA <josefnyongesa@gmail.com>
Sender: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Date: Sat, 14 Aug 2010 12:59:19
To: <mlalahoi@googlegroups.com>
Reply-To: mlalahoi@googlegroups.com
Cc: <youngprofessionals.ke@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: Successful kamba ladies maintaining marriages more than
counterparts in Luo & kikuyu !

True and keen observation on Rope(Kamba)ladies. Only you have to be
keen she might keep on exploiting her AREA OF AGRICULTURE; especially
if you work away from where she is. (NOT ALL). Then my friend told me
that if you marry a ladies from Central then you are inviting a method
known as 'DIVIDE BY TWO/TUGAWANYE MALI' in life. Then  a Luo lady will
ever expect to remain the way you got her i.e. she will wait for husy
to model her in all manner.

On Fri, Aug 13, 2010 at 12:28 PM, Kuria-Mwangi <kjmwangi@gmail.com> wrote:
> Chrispine,
> Also check with Meru women too. I have dated across the communities but it
> was only the Kamba lady who indicated that she didnt mind if I got another
> woman in her life and thought that was strange. She was actually my second
> since she was concurrently married with Junior's mother and that didnt seem
> to worry. Only the distance which caused the havoc but she is one person i
> regret today for losing.
>
> Have not seen any women from any region who are desparate for marriage like
> Meru women. For that, they make it last and that is another reason why I go
> in Meruland any time for a bride. Taita also ranks high among places where
> you may be sure of death doing you apart.
>
> Now those living abroad is another thing and I am not sure the statistics
> are the same but I can report here today that most of Kikuyu and Luo male
> friends who were stupid to marry too early are either single or doing their
> second or third marriage. What I cant tell for sure is whether the problem
> is with men or women or both. It is here that I have seen folks who are over
> 50 and ought to be settled single..Too many of them and that is why I will
> repeat again that Kenyans living abroad probably have a higher divorce rate
> than Americans themselves.
>
> I agree with you except on the conclusion of who is to get blamed, the lion
> or lioness.
>
> On Fri, Aug 13, 2010 at 12:02 PM, onyango chrispine <odumac2000@yahoo.com>
> wrote:
>>
>> Guys,
>> show me one successful Kamba lady who has broken a marriage and i might
>> just show you 100 either Kikuyu or Luo of similar status.
>> This is a terrific observation that cannot go unnoticed . Kudos Kamba
>> ladies !
>> Chrispine .
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